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Tenor Horn Fellow Regular Member
Joined: 17 Jun 2018 Posts: 41 Location: United States
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2018 8:44 am Post subject: I apologize |
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A TH member has sent me a PM which says that TH members are irritated by my posts.
I apologize.
I will stop posting in TH.
I reserve the right to have an occasional WTB ad in the Marketplace,
but I will not post in the forums.
I apologize to people who have been irritated by my posts.
Mark _________________
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Shifty Veteran Member
Joined: 23 Feb 2013 Posts: 250 Location: Phoenix AZ
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2018 10:41 am Post subject: Re: I apologize |
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Tenor Horn Fellow wrote: | A TH member has sent me a PM which says that TH members are irritated by my posts. |
So this one TH member claims to speak for all of TrumpetHerald? Who made him the Mayor? _________________ Getzen Eterna 700, Eterna 800
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TKSop Heavyweight Member
Joined: 23 Feb 2014 Posts: 1735 Location: UK
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2018 10:44 am Post subject: Re: I apologize |
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Shifty wrote: | Tenor Horn Fellow wrote: | A TH member has sent me a PM which says that TH members are irritated by my posts. |
So this one TH member claims to speak for all of TrumpetHerald? Who made him the Mayor? |
This.
You've made some good points very nicely indeed... A few posts I've decided to skip over but there's plenty of members I'm much more conscious of skipping.
Don't dwell on what one muppet has to say.
Either way, all the best |
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kehaulani Heavyweight Member
Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Posts: 9028 Location: Hawai`i - Texas
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2018 12:48 pm Post subject: |
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I don't necessarily see puting the onus on the critic but I agree that I don't see the point in withdrawing from the forum based on ONE email. Seems a bit thin-skinned and overreactory to me. _________________ "If you don't live it, it won't come out of your horn." Bird
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Voltrane Heavyweight Member
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 629 Location: Paris (France)
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2018 11:46 pm Post subject: |
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Always strange when someone needs to post he will not post anymore...
It is so easy to simply disappear... |
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Tenor Horn Fellow Regular Member
Joined: 17 Jun 2018 Posts: 41 Location: United States
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2018 3:04 am Post subject: |
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kehaulani wrote: | ...Seems a bit thin-skinned and overreactory to me. |
When I first came here, I made a dozen posts.
My posts were completely ignored for 2 days.
Then a TH member started posting insults at me.
A moderator finally told him to stop and deleted his insults.
I put a post in the "trade" thread offering a FREE expensive mouthpiece,
but after 2 days nobody responded, so I gave up.
Then I got a rambling Private Message which criticized my posts.
That was the final straw.
I publicly apologized in this thread because of the near-universal rejection of me here.
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after I post a humble public apology to everyone,
then you publicly accuse me of being "thin-skinned and overreactory",
I offer this simple final response:
Kiss my butt.
I bent over backwards to be nice to everybody,
but you still insist on bad-mouthing me right now.
So,
Kiss my butt.
That is not a flame war.
That is a parting shot.
Kiss my butt.
Mark _________________
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1934 H.N. White Circular Alto Horn - Silver - mint
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1961 Conn 9A Cornet - Coprion - mint
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m'pieces:
White Horn #8
Wick Cornet #2
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kehaulani Heavyweight Member
Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Posts: 9028 Location: Hawai`i - Texas
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2018 7:17 am Post subject: |
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Tenor Horn Fellow wrote: | [
Kiss my butt.
That is not a flame war.
That is a parting shot.
Kiss my butt.
Mark |
Kind of speaks for itself. _________________ "If you don't live it, it won't come out of your horn." Bird
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LittleRusty Heavyweight Member
Joined: 11 Aug 2004 Posts: 12664 Location: Gardena, Ca
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2018 10:29 am Post subject: |
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While I hate to see people leave, in this case I think the OP had expectations that do not reflect the way the site works. |
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mm55 Heavyweight Member
Joined: 01 Jul 2013 Posts: 1412
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2018 11:02 am Post subject: |
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Tenor Horn Fellow wrote: | When I first came here, I made a dozen posts.
My posts were completely ignored for 2 days.
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Your "completely ignored for 2 days" complaint doesn't hold water. Less than 24 hours after your first post, you were already deleting your own posts, replacing the contents with complaints that nobody had responded. And some other posts in your first two days were merely to complain that nobody was responding. Further, you were already re-replying to a reply to one of your posts, less than 48 hours after you first posted, so you were not "completely" ignored.
You don't seem to be able to get past this imaginary slight, which was caused a combination of your own petulant deletions, your own unjustified complaints, and business as usual here. People respond to what interests them, when they feel like it. Nobody is entitled to a response, especially not an immediate response. But instead of getting over it, you're exaggerating it as you tell it. Nurturing a grudge, for something that was mostly your own doing, and wasn't really as severe as you now claim.
Tenor Horn Fellow wrote: | Kiss my butt.
That is not a flame war.
That is a parting shot.
Kiss my butt.
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Well, that proves that your "apology" is as fake as your imaginary tale of suffering and woe in your first two days here. Public departure announcements in online forums are also frequently fake. Are you really leaving? We'll see. _________________ '75 Bach Strad 180ML/37
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Voltrane Heavyweight Member
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 629 Location: Paris (France)
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2018 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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FYI, I received a pm from our friend THF containing the same tasty wording.
In my opinion, no need to waste time on this topic. Better to close the thread.
Regards |
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Bstradivarius Veteran Member
Joined: 01 Mar 2017 Posts: 146 Location: Portland, Oregon, USA
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Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2018 12:41 am Post subject: |
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Brad361 Heavyweight Member
Joined: 16 Dec 2007 Posts: 7080 Location: Houston, TX.
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2018 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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Fairly sure this person has cycled through here a few times, different names (“Morris” comes to mind), same persecution complex stuff. I’ll bet he will be back with the same “being treated disrespectfully” claims again.
The person who I believe this is then launched into a long, rambling dissertation about severe health issues, with lots of self-pity included.
And I’m expecting another angry PM from this guy for posting this....also again; the person I believe this is has done that before.
The good thing? We’re not really cluttering up TH with all this, most people don’t read the Reveille forum much anyway!😎
Brad _________________ When asked if he always sounds great:
"I always try, but not always, because the horn is merciless, unpredictable and traitorous." - Arturo Sandoval
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Rod Haney Heavyweight Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2015 Posts: 937
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2019 4:25 pm Post subject: |
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I think everyone here has been tempted to tell someone on the list to kiss their a$$. I think it helps me to remember this is a public list whose population closely mirrors the general population where distortions, fabrications, closely held beliefs, and outright rudeness is prevalent. I think it’s just the nature of blogs. You get sincere honest people and every other kind, you just have to filter it all and try not to get disturbed. I have seen examples of good and bad, and will continue to I’m sure.
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A.N.A.Mendez Heavyweight Member
Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 5227 Location: ca.
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2019 8:35 pm Post subject: |
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By the way I think the quote was "Who made you mayor of this dump"
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